Clint supported my gradution from BYU, and I supported his from the U. I think I can speak for Clint in saying we both agree that both schools are good, quality schools and we respect each other's education. Every fall when the football season brings high rivalry tensions, I find the best way to keep my cool and not strain our relationship is by:
>being a Utah fan because I am a Clint fan
>cheering for teams, not against
>trying not to take offence at BYU digs
>keeping a playful attitude and making our school rivalry a running joke
>not categorizing either school into a stereotype, but remembering the high profile individuals as well as people in my life who represent each school.
It does help immensely that Clint is equally considerate of my allegiance as I am of his.
However, ahem... I do have to say that I had to beg for several years to get him to take me to Lavell Edwards stadium! :)

The BYU vs. Utah rival game is happening earlier than usual this year, and I will finally be going to watch the football game in my school's stadium. I saw the BYU-Utah game last year in Rice Eccles, thankfully surrounded by a healthy mix of fans. This 2011 season, Clint and I were able to buy tickets from someone selling them through ksl.com, and we are starting to get excited. We are even able to maintain cordial feelings toward each other, which may be surprising to someone enmeshed in the rivalry.
Clint even sent me this link today:
http://www.ksl.com/?sid=17079550&nid=1010.
This season I am feeling a little more connected to my BYU team than usual; I think this is partially because we finally invested in cable TV with DVR so I have been able to watch the cougs much more than usual. Usually I am a little starved for BYU talk because my husband and his family AND my own family mostly only talk Utes. That's right, I am a little blue fish in a sea of red. It's okay, though. I have never been confrontational in nature and I shun the ugly side of rivalry. It takes some effort to not get too emotionally involved or offended -- because there are plenty of opportunities.
I will, of course, be wearing the home colors on Saturday. Hehehe.
However, I will be holding Clint's hand even though our outfits will clash.:)